Our Story
How Middle Mates began
Middle Mates was born out of a very real, very practical problem.
Our son Lloyd is growing just like every other kid.
But when it came to nappies, the options stopped long before his needs did.
As Lloyd got older and bigger, we found ourselves stuck in a gap no one seemed to be talking about. Standard nappies stopped at sizes that simply didn’t work anymore. Products that did exist were uncomfortable, unreliable, expensive, or clearly not designed with real children and families in mind.
And every leak, every poor fit, every awkward change was a reminder that the system wasn’t built for kids like Lloyd or parents like us.
The quiet problem no one prepares you for
When your child needs nappies beyond the toddler years, it’s rarely spoken about.
There’s:
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The stress of leaks
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The discomfort for your child
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The impact on sleep, outings, and school
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The emotional weight of managing something so personal, every single day
It’s not just about nappies.
It’s about dignity.
It’s about comfort.
It’s about being able to leave the house without anxiety.
We didn’t want “good enough”.
We wanted something that actually worked.
Why we created Middle Mates
Middle Mates started because Lloyd needed bigger nappies/continence aids and because too many families were quietly dealing with the same thing.
We didn’t see nappies designed for:
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Older children
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Bigger bodies
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Real movement
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Real lives
So we decided to create them.
We’re starting with Size 8 nappies/continence aids, designed specifically for kids who have outgrown standard ranges but still deserve comfort, reliability, and care.
This isn’t about extending baby products.
It’s about designing for where families actually are.
Built with lived experience, not assumptions
Every decision behind Middle Mates comes from lived experience.
From late-night changes.
From trial-and-error with products that didn’t fit.
From conversations with other parents who said,
“Us too.”
Middle Mates is grounded in:
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Real family needs
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Respect for children’s dignity
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Honest, practical design
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Listening first, always
Lloyd is the reason this exists.
Families like ours are why it continues.
More than nappies/continence aids but starting with them
Middle Mates begins with nappies because that’s where the need is most urgent.
But our vision is bigger:
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To make everyday care easier
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To remove shame from conversations that matter
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To create products that support families, not complicate their lives
We’re here for the long haul.
We’re here for the middle where growing doesn’t mean outgrowing support.